Well, turns out that not everyone can have perfectly harmonious relationships all the time. The earth is a place where humans come to learn things, and relationships are for many people a key educational path.
Check out this video I created for YouTube if you need a little help COMPASSIONATELY understanding some of the various patterns in your relationships--from chaos to coolness.
Lots of little bits of wisdom in here--gleaned from my years of spiritual study, practice of holistic psychiatry, and study of astrology.
